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August 25, 2011

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I do agree with you to a point, but I was two weeks overdue and so glad they did an emergency C-section at midnight for Drew, as it turns out...the cord was wrapped around his neck twice. They didn't do ultrasounds very much back then though and I never had one. With all the technology and the amount of ultrasounds people receive now, they should be able to tell a little better whether you will need a C-section. With Darren my blood pressure went up so high while I was in labor, that they were worried it was gonna cause a stroke. Kent and I were watching a movie once where and the lady was all upset because she didn't have her babies naturally. He asked me if I ever felt that way....less of a woman? NO...I really never have and it has never bothered me at all. Just my perspective from the other side of the birth story :o). Daphne would have been just as beautiful either way she came out...cuz she has you guys for parents!

I totally agree! I did my research and understood the slippery slope that starts with pitocin, then epidurals, and ends in c-section. To my doctor's credit, we waited a full 32 hours of contractions 3-5 minutes apart (and zero dilation ... yep, zippo) before we started pitocin and then waited longer to start an epidural (tried walking first and no effect at all). We discussed our options every step of the way. I wasn't pressured and the decision to start it was made after several other options were attempted. And if contractions hadn't started naturally, we would have waited at least another week before discussing being induced. We all hung in there (Max was a champ) until hour 40, at 7 cm, when his heartrate started dropping drastically with each contraction. At that point, we called it quits. I have to believe that before the invention of modern medicine, I could have delivered this baby naturally and we would have all survived, but I honestly don't know what we could have done differently. How long would it have taken to dilate if I didn't do the pitocin? Did the pitocin or epidural cause his heart rate to drop? Did his size have anything to do with the lack of progression? Lots of unknowns. All I can say is, I went in eyes open and STILL ended up with a c-section. And if we are lucky enough to have another baby, I'll still go in with the expectation of a natural childbirth.

i would like to say a lot, but cant quite formulate my words right now. i was lucky enough to have two healthy babies, both by c-sections. first, a c-section for medical reasons which could not have been avoided, and the second due to the risks of a vaginal delivery after having had a c-section. i have no regrets. i think my birth experience was just as amazing as anyone else's. seeing first hand (through working in the profession) what can happen to a baby when a delivery goes wrong or a c-section does not happen fast enough when it is definitely needed gives me a little different perspective than the general population. i read this post on a "mothers in medicine" blog and would love to share it. and i'd love to hear people's thoughts....
http://obgynkenobi.blogspot.com/2011/08/obgyns-are-terrible-people-who-deserve.html

Ah yes, this is one of those things. Motherhood. So much drama.

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